Okay guys, here they are . . . The Facts! Before you think about having casual sex, unprotected sex, or even sex with your girlfriend think about these points: Can you deal with the consequences of getting someone pregnant? Remember this doesn't always happen to the "other guys." You, too, can make a girl pregnant. This doesn't always happen to "other guys." Condoms are never 100% safe and they certainly will not guard you completely from sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy. Oral sex is sex and anal sex is sex. Both may lead to sexually transmitted infections and anal sex may lead to pregnancy. Skin on skin contact may also transmit sexual infections. In this case, size does matter - no condom is big enough to keep away all infection particles. Condoms don't cover everything, and you are at risk to catch or transmit infection. "Intimacy", that old fashioned word for "doing it", actually means that you are involved in your partner's life in more than just a physical way.  It implies that you are willing to be there for your girlfriend emotionally and mentally and to be committed to her needs. If you're not ready for that ... YOU'RE NOT READY! Our SOLUTION is to wait! Wait until you are ready and wait until you are ABSOLUTELY SURE that in your future there are NO unwanted pregnancies and NO sexual infections. OVER 45,000 YOUNG WOMEN IN CANADA EVERY YEAR FACE A PREGNANCY THEY DIDN'T PLAN! and guess what . . .??? Not one of them got pregnant by herself! Picture this: You get "the call" . . . You know the one. The one where she's crying and you're mad and then you're crying and she's mad. And it's all because her period was late and the test read "pregnant." You have to tell your parents. You have to tell her parents. You have to keep telling yourself, because you can't even believe it. Now you're on a time line. Do you ask your girlfriend to abort the pregnancy? What does a respectable guy do, go with her? Send his buddy? She says no, there's not going to be an abortion and you find out that it's all her choice anyway. What about adoption? Give it away? What about becoming a dad? What, like your dad? Like her dad?  You're not ready for this. One great night, one great party and now you're talking about family trees. Marriage? To her? What about basketball? You've got friends and a social life to consider here. It was just a one night thing, you don't want to grow old with this girl. What about university? You were going to be the greatest computer programmer who ever lived, you were going to be the next Steven Jobs/Bill Gates with a little Shaquille O'Neill thrown in. Don't see yourself in the picture?    STAY ZIPPED! TAKE CHARGE! It’s YOUR health,   YOUR future, YOUR goals,   YOUR success.